I
think my neighbor is a hoarder. It’s the 9th of January, and their
dangling-by-a-thread Christmas decorations are still up (and illuminated every
night). You might say that there are others who haven’t gotten around to packing
up all of their holiday decorations just yet – but that doesn’t explain the
trio of pumpkins that are also still on their stoop. From 1994. No, that’s not
true, they’re from 2012. But clearly these people have trouble letting go of
things.
They
live in a townhouse with a 4x5 cement slab in front of their entry way. In
addition to decorations from two holidays, this spot is also home to some
hanging plants, a money tree (a literal tree with Monopoly money hanging from
its branches), and a broken bird house that resembles a craft project never
finished. And oh yes, there’s also a security system sign – as if burglars
needed further deterrent to entering this home.
Compulsive hoarding (or pathological collecting) is a pattern of
behavior that is characterized by the excessive acquisition of and inability or
unwillingness to discard large quantities of objects that cover the living
areas of the home and cause significant distress or impairment. When I
Googled the problem, I was shocked to find an entire article on “celebrity
hoarders” (i.e., those who will talk about absolutely anything to get their
name in the press) like Kristin Chenoweth, Mackenzie Phillips (who I believe was
also on Celebrity Ghost Stories, her
street cred keeps falling), Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, Heidi Montag & Spencer Pratt, Lisa Kudrow, Mariah Carey and Courtney Love. How’s that for good company?
I make light of it
here, but the reality is that hoarding is far from a joke. It’s a serious
condition that impacts lives in a big way. I know holidays are sentimental occasions,
but it’s time to put Christmas behind us, people. Take your lights and wreaths
down so that they’ll be ready for next year. Look ahead to the next major celebration.
And please – for me – get rid of your pumpkins.
It's that time of year again -- the TAF Conference is coming up next weekend!
Triangle Area Freelancers (TAF) presents WRITE NOW! 2011, its annual nonfiction symposium hosted by Wake Tech Community College's Northern Campus, Building D, on Saturday, April 2, from 8:00-4:00 in Raleigh, NC.
Philip Gerard, chair of the Department of Creative Writing at UNCW, will deliver the keynote address: "Cultivating the Successful Writer Within." New York literary agent Rita Rosenkranz will also discuss The Author/Agent Relationship. Conference classes, taught by nationally published writers and journalists, are presented in two concurrent tracks for both beginning and experienced writers. Online registration (which includes breakfast and lunch) is available through March 31: www.triangleareafreelancers.org/WriteNow.html.